Seeking Solace .
A lesson and reality that we may all come to face in life is that when you give or lend, you may never receive what you have given over and you may never receive acknowledgment for your kind or human act…….
Anonymous asked: i hope ur smelss and tastes back to You again..Mine not but maybe some da..
I hope yours does as well! I can still taste things, not 100% but things still taste good or bad :)
“I recieved this quote the other day, from a Christian web site;
“True respect for another comes from self respect. True love for another comes from self love. True forgiveness for another comes from self forgiveness.”
Deep, isn’t it?
How many people, when hurt, turn around and hurt themselves?
How many retract into their own world of self pity, self hate, cut themselves, drink, do drugs and punish themselves after being hurt by someone else?
Somehow, feeling, somewhere deep inside, that they deserve it. They don’t deserve better. That somehow, they brought it upon themselves, blame themselves.
Can you see how that quote, applies?
How could we possibly have the ability to forgive someone else, when we can’t even forgive ourselves?
Simply, we can’t. We can’t heal from outer wounds, while self inflicting our own wounds.
We have to go inside ourselves, to the root of the problem. We have to look at ourselves, go over each mistake we have made, feel the pain, forgive ourselves for it and then release it. Which is a hard, but necessary process. “
— http://theenigmacalledself.wordpress.com/2012/02/14/forgiving-without-getting-the-apology/